Feeling insecure around people

Peter O’Toole said on the threatre “Acting is just being a man. Being human. Not forcing it. Some make it their entire life. Big mistake. Laurence Olivier fell into that category. He was a tiny, strange, vain f—er.”

I take that to mean that around people one must just be a man (or a lady if you are a lady), be human and not force it.

People who make their careers their entire life do it as they are small, strange and vein people.

That could also be interpreted as ‘be true to yourself and do not force it’

People who are insecure often put on an act, joke excessively and all kinds of things. They do this to cover up and divert away from what they really are and cover up their insecurity.

The insecurity is that they are not good enough and people will not like, respect and want the real them. The answer is to become a more ethical, better, kinder and more capable person.

They are often also superficial because they cannot face their selfishness, the answer is to become less selfish.

You need to be fine with people looking at you. Let’s say you’re in the line getting coffee at a coffee shop, you have a right to be there, you have a right to take the time needed to put the milk in your coffee. You have a right to take the time needed to do things, turn to anyone push you.

You must be fine with people looking at you going down the street and so on, even let’s say if you are on stage with hundreds of people looking you.

Confidence

How it works

If when dating a person is confident that they look good, then other people will think so too and want to go out with them.

If a person is socialising and that person is confident they are a great person to know then other people will think so too (so they believe that everyone wants to get to know them, thinks they are a great person to know. As people are sheep they think that if everyone else wants to know them then they must be a great person to know)

If a person is selling a product and is confident it is good, then other people will think it is good as well and will buy it.

If you are confident that you are rich then other people will think that you are rich too.

If a person is dating and is confident that they are appealing and good looking, then other people will too and they will do well dating. If for example a person has a lack of confidence with a certain feature about themselves, other people will have a problem with it too and it will draw attention to it.

This works because:
▪everything and all people are one, connected and together. So if you think something then others will too. Be careful not to abuse this!
▪if you believe it then you will act like it is so and other people will believe it. It will actually change how you act and behave.

Arrogance

Confidence is about a person knowing that they can do something, it is positive and about creating things.

Arrogance is about thinking about oneself relative to others, it is a selfish thing of thinking that one is better than others.

Ultimately a good person has confidence in others. A good person wants to help others by having confidence in them which helps the other person do well and and achieve things. So a good person looks up to others and thinks that they are great.

It is fine to be confident that you are great, but do not go down a dark selfish path of thinking you are better than others, think that others are rubbish or put other people down.

People will like you if you have confidence in them, look up to them and think they are great. People will hate you if you look down on them and think they are rubbish.

The dark side

Also be careful not to go into a fantasy world and loose contact with reality. The best thing is to be successful and these real successes will feed your confidence. If you are a failure this will destroy your confidence.

Success if done for oneself can also lead to arrogance or complacency, thinking that one is God’s gift to a organisation or whatever the person has been working with. Things are created, eminated and formed by God. If we do what is right then God makes it work. A person must never egotistically think that the success was all down to them.

The best way to be successful is to be good and not evil. Good deeds lead to greater success as they are deserved, as the deeds are all for God and for others. Service of God and so others also creates the rught perspective.

Good karma and doing good

You also need to be confident about others as this will have a good effect on them and they will really like it.

Having confidence in others also enables them to be great and do things they could not otherwise do. It creates goodwill which helps them to be constructive and brilliant.

By being confident in others, you will get the good karma of being confident in yourself.

Know who you are

Are person can be insecure and not confident because they do not know who they are.

Every person is created by God for a reason and has a place and purpose in the universe. Once a person knows who and what they are, then they can be confident because they know they
should be there and are valid.

Succeding

Confidence is essential in everything about person does. A person would not bother to do something, if they did not think there was a decent chance of succeeding.

People who are not confident in something are often not able to do something properly, as confidence is intrinsically needed for doing something.

For example if someone is not confident in how they present themselves, they will not present themselves well and it will show.

Signs a person does not have confidence

They need the approval of others attention from others. Ironically this makes a person more dependent on others and needy. So they are less interesting to others, less respectable and so they also get less respect and attention. A confident person does not mind if people do people do not notice, respect and agree with them.

They cannot accept criticism, even when it is true and the benevolently given.

They need status symbols

They cannot cope when someone else tries to take their girlfriend, a confident person would believe that she would rather be with them. For the same reason they cannot even cope if a girlfriend is hanging out and chatting with other people in case she goes off with someone else.

Doing things which are not right to get the approval and acceptance of others, like letting other people rip them off or take advantage of them.

Do unwarranted things to get the approval of bad people. This may mean doing things which are not necessary or are unjustified. For example saying sorry when have done nothing wrong, making themselves look stupid in front of others.

Blame other people when they themselves have got something wrong. They also cannot take the blame when they have done something wrong.

All these things to make the man less interesting, impressive and nice to be with.

When with other people and you get things wrong

In real life when gets things wrong, should apologise to others if it affects them. Be truthful and honest and pay for mistakes, otherwise will pay for them later.

However as a performer need people to think that material is good. Of course the best way to do it is to have good material and therefore be good. So will naturally build up confidence on the back of this reality.

For a performance, confidence is essential. Investors often do not understand the product they investing in, just base it on the confidence and certainty of the founders pitching to them.

The same can be so many other things such as music or comedy performances. The audience think that person is confident in their material, so it must be good.

However if the audience does not respond to the material and the performer panics, the audience will then panic and feel insecure as well. The audience is not able to enjoy it as they feel the nervousness and panic as well. Also the audience believes it is rubbish, as has had it confirmed to them by the performer.

The natural reaction is for the performer to get nervous, panic and speak faster etc. So the performer must learn as a reaction to become completely calm and relaxed.

They speak even slower than before, etc. Deep slow breathing is also good as the body effects the psyche, as everything in the universe is one.

Done correctly, the audience will think that the material must be good and they just do not understand it, because the performer is so calm and relaxed about it. So the performer is so calm and confident about it, that it must be good.

Speaking slowly and not rushing

For comedians, if a joke is going badly then it can be tempting for them to speed up to get to the punchline.

It’s best to slow down in those situations, so the audience see that you’re confident. The audience think it must be good because you’re confident in it and so they think it’s good as well.

Speaking slowly shows you have confidence, you have the time to do things and don’t need to rush them.

Psychic

The first thing is to establish a target.

It could be to become aware of the people who died and are still hanging around from after battle on a battlefield.
However you may see things you do not like, or more than you can cope with. So make sure you can then focus in a different direction, frequency or just turn it off.

The main thing is to practice.

It is also very easy to think you are focusing on others and other levels, but the the ego means we are actually focusing on ourselves.

A sign we are actually focusing on our ego / ourselves is that things are more dramatic, excessive and over the top. This can also happens because the ego can think it is everything, the entire universe, when of course it is not.

Being aware of the psychic and spiritual levels need a person to be aware of a level more subtle than a feather gently touching an eyelash.

Being aware of others from the effects they have on you

Everything is one.

Become aware of the impressions, effects, that other peoples’ feelings, emotions, thoughts etc. are having on you. Just like ripples across a pond from a stone having been thrown in, that move other places and things in the pond. Other other peoples’ feelings, emotions, thoughts etc. will come over to you.

This means that a person has to be very aware of themselves, so can be aware of the effects that others are having on them.

For example, only once are aware of your own thoughts, can a person then be aware of others people’s thoughts in them.

Everything is one, so if another person gets angry, you will get angry too and will be able to feel their anger.

So to be aware of someone elses feelings, look at your feelings to be aware of yours.

So to be aware of someone elses emotions, look at your emotions to see theirs.

So to be aware of someone elses thoughts, look at your thoughts to see theirs.

Physic travelling

By thinking of something you are there, whatever time or space that may be. This is because the psyche and spirit are on a higher level than the physical, they are different worlds.

Consciousness can travel and go anywhere.

On that level a person can be with different people, places, forces, beings, concepts and worlds throughout the universe and spiritual levels.

First imagine it, then you are there.

Make sure you do not abuse this, the penalties for abusing it are great and this power will also be taken away from you.

Also make sure that at any time during your travelling, you can get back to yourself. Also that you get back to yourself afterwards, or you may be lost forever.

Also need to ensure that no spirit or psychological being takes your body while you are away, so please do keep an eye on it.

Reasons people may not use their psychic abilities

Facing painful things: When being aware of things, can become aware of and experience painful things. This can be on a physical, psychological, spiritual and divine levels. A person can only tell that they are unpleasant, once they have become aware of it, so this may stop them from wanting to be aware.

To stop being aware of things, simply face or focus your attention on something else.

Not being taken over by other things

External beings who are manevolent can try and take you over. You need to have these self-worth to be able to stand out yourself and make sure you don’t let them.

Demonic possession often comes from when the person doesn’t value themselves enough, so they think why would anybody else.

Getting the best from people

Connect to people on a human level, connect to their humanity.   Everyone has a human nature to them and appealing to their consciousness helps to do this.

A person will do far more for people who have done this with them.

Appreciation

People will perform best for you, when they feel they are appreciated.

If you push them, they will want to push back out of revenge and will want to destroy you.

Being a father

A son wants
▪Attention
▪Affection
▪Approval

from their father, without these a son cannot bond with his father.

This is especially important so the son can identify with his father, so feel well comfortable and like the concept of masculinity and being masculine.

Getting a connection with your children:

▪doing with them what they want to do
▪spending the time with them
▪listening to what they have to say about what interests them

Then when they are adults and you are older, they will want to be with you.

Important to do when younger and especially pre teens, once a teenager they will want to be with their friends and not you.

How to appear classy

In definition times this just means someone has high status in society.

However a person can have achieved power and money, but still be viewed as a  not classy person because of have a look and behave.  This means they are looked down on by classy people, who also do not want to be with them.

Classy people have things and behave in a benevolent way.

Softness, refinement and non aggression

No sharp movements, in fact as few movements at all. Even when walking there is no swagger, as as smooth and as little movement as possible outside just walking. Sharp and large movements mean aggression and less refinement.

Each movement starts smoothly, ends smoothly, with no jerking inbetween. The start and stop are all completely smooth with no jerks anywhere.

This also makes everything look easy and effortless.

Body movements controlled and organised so not all over the place.

Jokes in movement also make things appear uncontrolled.

Tidyness

All hair combed neetly in place, clothes are new so materials not shaggy and falling apart .

Giving and service

Classy people have a sense of morality, doing the right thing.

Avoid ‘I want’ both in word, deed and feeling. This is a dark selfish hard hole of wanting to suck things in and is not classy.

Doing things properly

They speak words fully and do things properly.

Doing things slowly and quietly

As somebody who is high class has everything, they do not need to rush, panic and shout.

Everything can be done nicely, slowly, carefully, properly, quietly and with ease.

What women want

Women are not as driven by looks as men.

Women want:

▪A man who makes them feel good and beautiful, a lover.

A man loving them, makes them feel good and beautiful. The man does things for them because he loves them, become she is so wonderful.

▪The king of the jungle. Like the lion is the king of the jungle.

▪A man who is good in bed.

Behaviour

Girls do not want arrogant men. They want sweet, nice, kind and still masculine.

What women do not want

Freaks: guys who are into wierd stuff in their views and opinions, what they do, sex life and so on.

Nerds: guys who are ugly both in looks and behaviour, without skills such as courage, emotional intelligence, social skills and so on.

Playboys: men who just want to sleep with them, then as have no interest in a relationship will move on to another lady. Women of very wary of this and will do all they can to tell if a man is like this. For example women will make sure the man is really interested in them as a person, wants to spend time with them, does lots of things and so on before letting the man have sex with them.

Of course women want it to be that the man is turned on by them, attracted to them and really wants to have sex with them. However if the woman is not ready and comfortable to have it at that occasion, so early in the relationship, or the man does not also want a relationship with them and to be with them as a person. Then the woman feels cheap and used.

Other things women want

A man who is smart, this is both so they can be a good provider and so that they can stimulate the lady.

A man who is smart so can give them advice and who is right most of the time, but is not arrogant about it.

A man who is totally devoted to them.

A lot of women want a man who will look after them financially and emotionally. As the man is masculine he can be a rock that is fine through all sorts of emotional weather they may be going through. He can listen to them, support them, be there for them and will not get blown over. Whatever happens he will be there to support them, remain stable and okay. Many men think they have to show off, in fact they just have to be a strong, stable and there for the woman. With the man there, they will be okay.

Affection

This basically stems from loving them.

You hold that hands, you look at them like you love them, are gentle with them, have loving feelings towards them and all the things that express and show affection.

To women this is more important than sex, affection is really important.

The dynamics of male and female

Feminine energy is beautiful, wonderful, fantastic, fun, and so on. However it needs the masculine energy to be able to protect it so it can do and be these things.

So a woman will look for a secure man that will give them this security and protection, so they can be the best possible feminine energy.

If during the relationship the man doesn’t give them the security, such as being, a pushover, temperamental, unreliable, feeble, timid, and so on, then they will do not feel secure and they will leave the relationship.

The feminine may even come up against the masculine, try to push it around, test it and even push it around. Here the masculine must provode boundaries, so it can still provide security for the woman.

Of course the masculine needs to protect the woman, so she can be beautiful, wonderful and express her feminine energies.

Approaching women

Approaching women in public places

Men who ‘hunt and fish’ are the ones who get.

If it is a place where men do not approach women such is on the train, bus, pavement, or shopping centre. It is essential that the woman feels safe.

It is what you do, how you say things, which is more important than the words you say.

Your opening line must not be about or relate to anything personal to them, or about anything they own. If you go up to them and say anything about a personal possession they have such as an electronic item, or their handbag, they will run away for fear you will want to steal it. This may sound obsessive, but even a mention of a personal possession, leads to an area that leads to this subject matter where there is this fear.

Even a joke that you are not a stalker or something, no matter how silly will trigger a fear as it is even being mentioned as a thought or possibility. So never go anywhere near such a thing, or even joking about it.

How to start

What you do is the most important, more than what you say. It is also how you say it, more than the words themselves This shows what you are and how you are.

Can start just by looking at the woman giving her love, she will see that you love her, think she is beautiful and if you have the right feelings then she will pick that up as well. You are giving her love.

She will notice you and from this, she may be interested and even look back.

If it is a public place and you are a stranger, she may not look back at you and express her interest. Then you may have to start talking to her for a while she she discoverers that you are not a weirdo and are okay.

Give not take, serve the lady

You give love, showing through body language, feelings and emotions, how much you love her. You really have to have and generate those feelings, cannot fake it.

To do this the man has to serve the woman, without thinking of what is going to get back.

If the man is thinking about what he will get back, such as if the woman will like him or anything selfish, then the free flow of love does not happen. For example if the man is not wanting complments back, or the lady to have to communicate how great he is.

If the man is worrying about what he gets back it is the same.

If this happens, the man is wanting something from the lady, which is not so interesting or nice for the lady.

It can also lead to an existance, feel, or look of forcefulness from the man that he wants something back which is also not nice for the lady.

Focus on the giving, not the reward.

It must be the man is giving and the lady to give back only if she wants to, but not because the man has asked for it.

The man needs to be focused on serving the lady and what she gets. He does this because he loves her and cares about her.

It must be okay for the lady if the man loves her and lady does not love man back, she is not forced into anything. The lady has received the compliment that she is lovely, wonderful, beautiful, that the man really likes her and will like that.

There is no threat as the man does not want anything, the lady is just receiving.

Of course it is open for the lady to give back if she wants to and of course the man would like that.

A lady will always like a man who says she is lovely, beautiful and communicates this with feelings and truth, for a lady it is the ultimate compliment. Ladies love compliments about how beautiful and lovely they are.

If it is just words saying this, but the man is actually just take the lady can tell this. To do this it needs to be that the man has a good soul, heart and is genuinely sincere.

The man is giving love

The man who cannot feel, angry or negative anything like that. The lady will then get those negative emotions, even if the man is trying to cover it up. She will respond badly to the man as she will become angry and negative conceiving energies, also she not be nice back out of revenge for her having been received those nasty energies.

If the man is happy, full of love and giving love, the lady will herself become full of love, be happy and also cannot help like a man for giving her those energies.

If the man has negative energies and tries to cover it up by smiling, it will not matter. It is what is really happening underneath that matters.

Immediate love

It must be the man thinks she is beautiful, wonderful, amazing, fantastic as soon as he sees her.

The man is overwhelmed by how wonderful and amazing she is. The man is not distracted by, or thinking about anything else.

It must be not be that when he first sees her, does not really notice her, think she is amazing or looks elsewhere. The lady wants to think that he really loves her and this must not be tarnished. This is because in nature the woman needs the man to love her so he will hunt, fight and protect for her. If this is not perfect then he will not do that and she will feel insecure. A look that is less than being in awe of her, will be seen by her as a moment of doubt not love from the man, or disinterest and make her less interested in the man.

The man has to be in awe and amazement of her and cannot have moments which take away from that.

So it is from how the man feels, looks at her, facial and bodily expressions, tones of voice and so so that he really loves her.

Consent

This is a huge deal to a lady. Women want a man that wants to make love to them, pushes them up against the wall and kisses them, because he wants them so much.

However consent is a woman’s biggest power, the ability to say and express no.

Never go anywhere near even close to not letting a woman have consented to say no and always give her the consent for you to do, or not do things.

Always have it when going up to women and in all stages of your relationship, that the woman chooses if she gives her consent and so you only do things with her consent.

This is both because for women this is their power and they enjoy that. Also women have it as their own self defence.

Doing things without consent is rape and women go so far away from this line with good reason. Women are very cautious because of the history and vulnerability men raping women so much. It is important in a relationship to always have it there, he only does it uf she gives her consent, or it will never happen!

Valuing the lady

Women do not want to feel like the man is just hunting, like the man and woman are just animals, flesh and the man is just marking out their territory.

A woman wants to be valued as a beautiful being and have a man who loves them and makes love to them.

Persistence

At the beginning going up to a girl in a public place, she naturally and justifiably will be suspicious of a stranger.

Need to deliver your lines with confidence and see it through without giving up. So eventually get to a point where they see you are not just some creepy guy, but are okay.

Safety

The primary reason why men do not often go up to women in public and women may not like it. Is because of safety.

The girl rejecting or repulsing the man because they do not feel safe, as the man is a stranger.

It is important for men to remember, that when women go in tonight clubs, they are often groped, touched and so on with men put their hands on them. This makes women especially cautious and concerned.

At all points, the man should always make sure the women feels she has a route to go away from you, you are not within reaching distance so cannot touch them. The woman also has an easy escape route to easily get away from the man and go away.

The man should always give them an out of a way of ending the conversation, for example expressing that they understand if they are busy and want to read a book or something.

The man may feel that this will make the woman end the conversation, but because she has a way out, she feels safe, so will be more likely and happy to do it and continue speaking with you, because she has this way of getting out of it.

Woman from a safety point of view, want it that the man is looking to see if they are interested and will leave them alone if they want to be left alone. Women though often expect the man just to know though, even if they do not communicate anything, so the man has to be very aware.

It needs to be the girl speaks with the man, because the man is a good opportunity for her, not because she in any way feels forced to. The man is giving to her, not taking to her.

Then she can stop if she would like to, This is not just moral, but if she has the freedom and it is her choice, she will enjoy and want to talk with you more.

Girls like it when men show how much they like them, are flirtatious and affectionate. This may seem girly and boring to guys, but it is what women want. Women like cuddles, affection, romance, kissing etc., men often do not do this enough as they find this boring and just want sex.

Men may want to have sex here and now, but women often just want to have fun, talk, dance and joke. They just like it that the man wants to be with them all the time. That is why woman want a man with a personality, who is fun and interesting.

When this is done over a long period of time, the girl will relax, want the man and get the girl turned on, so she will and soft and want to have sex with a man.

When the woman wants to have sex with the man, they want it to be that the man cannot resist them, but as women are very emotional, they want it to be only when they want to have sex.

They do not want to have the interference of a man wanting to have sex with them, when they do not want sex. Doing it when they do not want sex will repel them.

However women always like flirtation, affection, love, hugs and kisses.

The compliment

Women want to be beautiful, perceived as beautiful. Women put a huge amount of energy and effort into achieving this, it is very important to them.

If man thinks expreses love towards her, that she is incredibly beautiful.
That in itself is something that will be interesting to the lady.

The man does not even verbally have to say anything, just look at her like she is incredibly beautiful and express love for her.

She will love that.

Women not being seductive to the man

With some women they often may not express that they want a man, but subconsciously they really do. This is because they may expect the man to be interested in them so much, that the man knows what the woman wants. They expect the man to do everything for them and they have to do nothing. They are then of course disappointed and upset when the man has not approached them.

This can be because they are just selfish and feel overly entitled, so did you not do anything.

It can also be because their first male role model of their father, did everything for them and they had to do nothing, so they are replicating that.

That is why the man may find that when they have done nothing, the woman no longer wants to talk with them or is unhappy with them. It is because the man has not done anything.

According to nature, it should be that the man goes up to the woman and chases them. The the women wants this however it is the women that make themselves attractive so the man is attracted to them. Of course if the woman does not want this, the man should go away.

Women who are clever will use body language, be open etc., to show the man that if he comes up to them, he will be successful.

Caring

Women are always being careful and cautious to make sure the man is not a creep.

Men may say that they are a model scout and they could be a model and all that rubbish. They are the look out for tricks that men may use.

So it needs to be that a man wants to spend time with her, for her to see if she is right for him. There are no tricks.

Basically that the man really cares about her and wants to spend time with her and be with her.

Then women over time will test to ensure that the man really does care and wants to be with her.

Motivation

Men out of ego may want to show off to the girl, impress her and so on.

This can lead to him showing off, for example that he has a big car and so on. All this is of no interest to the girl as she probably has no interest in cars, also him showing off is just for him and not for her.

The women is interested in what he does for her and will do for her. She wants a man who listens to her, what she has to say, not a man that talks about himself.

So the man has to be looking at serving and elevating the girl, not just lifting up himself. He only lifts himself up, in order to better able to be great for her.

Be nice and respectful

Women want it that the man is nice to them, he says ‘hi’, asks how they are and treats them nicely.

You talk with them and show your personality.

Doing dodgy weird tricks to approach and talk to them just makes you look dodgy and weird.

The worst thing is ‘cat calling’ where the man just shouts something like saying they’re sexy, whistles at them, or says something in a foul and disrespectful way. That’s just the man selfishly wanting things because he’s horny.

Women want romance, so if you’re going to talk about sex at the start using vulgar words it won’t go down well.

Women want romance, so be romantic, although of course still need to be masculine.

Wisdom from meditations

This is wisdom that has come from my meditations:

From inner teacher:

A person associating themselves with things

Sadness, bad behaviours and other things come from a person associating themselves and being with bad people and groups.

This could be a school they are at, place of work, social group involved with, restaurant eating at, location where live and so on.

The universe is one, a person is affected by what is around and with them. Being around bad things will have a huge effect on a person.

So it is important to be with, working with and associated with good people.

The ego may think it is separate and can resist such things, but that is the ego’s illusion of being separate.

These things can also cause habits and influences that it may take many years to find the cause of, especially if they were part of a person’s education or school when they were younger.

Less evolved beings

Think of the less evolved, timid beings and people.

Do not be so right wing looking down on such beings, be aware of them, love, sympathy and compassion. They do not have the knowledge of people who have been able to advance, teach them.

Over long periods they will evolve and grow.

When at the higher levels

At the higher levels need to be able to look at things, without wanting to grasp and have them.

This means can look at the things in the higher levels and things there, because have the purity to be able to be worthy, and allowed to be there.

The person is then not taking from and dusturbing these higher levels, with the lower level of crudeness and morality they may have.

So are allowed to see the things in the higher levels as not damaging and disturbing them.

This is because are not taking from and muddying these higher levels with the selfish grasping.

When a person is more moral they can take part and be involved, but until that time they can just look, watch and learn.

Open minded

Being open minded means to be open to being aware of other people’s views

▪An adverse judgment or opinion formed beforehand or without knowledge or examination of the facts.
▪A preconceived preference or idea.
▪The act or state of holding unreasonable preconceived judgments or convictions.
▪Irrational suspicion or hatred of a particular group, race, or religion.
▪Detriment or injury caused to a person by the preconceived, unfavorable conviction of another or others.
▪To cause (someone) to judge prematurely and irrationally.

Causes of this maybe

The biggest reason is that once a person is open minded they will inevitably have to change. As the person becomes aware of different ways and points of view, they may see ways that are better, or that their way is wrong. Then they will have to change.

It is easy not to ponder and consider other people’s views maybe the opposite of your current views.  A person can think they already know the answer and so not look again.

Pride or insecurirty at their own self worth and low self esteem may mean they cannot think that they may be wrong or somebody else knows better.

This could be because of preconceived ideas, things a person has been told, or certain previous experiences which are not in line with most of reality.

Going along with what another person or group says or believes and not thinking or looking for oneself.

Consciousness and awareness is an important for being open minded,  because it means a person can see things directly, rather than just what  they have been told.

Being able to tolerate, be open to and cope with things that are different to oneself, is another essential part of being able to do this.

Also exposure to things that are different to oneself and one’s own views.

Open mindedness is essential to progress, move on and go upwards in line with the upper and spirit worlds. Otherwise a person is just repeating the old patterns, not adapting, changing and progressing.

God and the higher levels

Being open minded is especially important for being able to be aware of God and higher levels. A person may have different ideas to God on many issues.

The ego sees God and high levels as separate to itself, even though in truth everything comes from God and is one.

So to be able to perceive God and high levels it is essential to be open minded so to be open to and perceive the higher levels. The reasons above can prevent a person from being open minded.