Responsibility and Risk

For a person to succeed they must take responsibility and risks.

Not being a sheep

By a person taking responsibility, they can do whatever they like as they fir pay making it, doing it and also for the consequences if they are wrong.

This means they do not have to do what others tell them, because they do not need their approval or resources to do it.

So they can do their ideas, views and actions. They are free.

If they want others to be responsible as they do not want to take the risk themselves, then they must do what others agree to.

Without taking responsibility and risks a person will need others to do so, or there will not be anything.

So the person ends letting other people take responsibility and for this is effectively done by doing what they are told by the person who takes responsibility. They also end up doing what everyone else does as then they are not responsible and they can claim that others are.

This may seem to be easy, comfortable and pleasant. However this is just going along with the average.

Also if a person does not take responsibility they have no control, as they have given that the person who takes responsibility.

The reality of the universe is bigger and greater than what people decide to do and whatever people decide to do, reality and the consequences will eventually catch up with them.

Being at the bottom of the hierarchy

This refers to who are the entrepreneurs and managers, compared to who are the workers.

The people at the top are the ones that take risks and responsibility. They are the ones that take the risk and hire the other people. So they are in control

On business they are capital and wealth as as they that take the risk. It is the people employed who get paid each month or week even if things succeed and fail. As a result they work and get the money from the owner who is the one that has taken the risk. The owner gets the profit.

Creating

So to be genuinely creative, need to be true to yourself and do what is right and not what other people do. To do this a person has to take responsibility for their choices and actions.

This means taking the risk in case they are wrong, as a person will only truly know once they have or are doing it.

Without risk they cannot be trying anything new and going beyond the limits of what they can already do.

Normally countries and things are created by a person taking responsibility. Then other people want to have it, control that person etc.

Morality

To be truly moral, a person has to take responsibility for themselves and their actions, without this they cannot know if they are doing the right thing.

Also otherwise they are doing what the average does and everybody else does. This is not necessarily doing the right thing.

Not doing routine, habits, and traditions

Doing what you did before, may seem safe, however it is not necessarily what works now, or even what was the best thing to do in the past.

Listen to your ideas, look at what is really going on. Also, things change and you need to be aware of that.

How to find out what someone is really like

Feel them

Feel the person feel them out got a person can fake externally, but your feelings will reveal the truth.

It is possible to feel if someone is judgemental, kind, evil, angry, happy etc.

If you start to feel angry when you are with a person, that person is angry.

As everything is one, you can see them by the effect they’re having on yourself your feelings, your thoughts, your spirit etc.

Observe

This is not just seeing, it is observing looking. By practicing this skill a person’s observation gets better and better and they see more and hear more and more.

Consciousness

Everything is one, the whole universe is one. So by putting your consciousness on another person, you can experience them, the physicality, psychology, spirit and connection with the Divine.

You can do this and experience, as much as you can your own self. This is just by focusing your consciousness on them.

Experience

The more you experience different kinds of people, then the next time that facet presents itself in another person, you will recognise, be able to see and understand it from before.

Be interested in others

Most people are not aware of others because they are not interested in others. They are so obsessed and involved in the ego of I and mine.

To be aware of others have to be interested in others, not just I, me and mine.

Decisions

Fear, anger and stress about themselves or their possessions makes people make bad decisions.

A person feeling out of control, being faced with a threat, or the unknown for themselves can make a person do this.

These things are fine when for others, but when for oneself and so selfish, it can make decision making hard and cloudy.

Love for others is the best cure.

Need to be calm so God and the higher levels can guide a person.

If in a state where a person is concerned for themselves, their pre occupation with themselves will stop them from hearing and listening to these higher levels. . If is an emotional thing need to wait until the emotion passes so are calm again and can hear the higher levels.

Asking God and the higher levels can lead to good answers. Need to then wait for a time for them to come through.

Masculine and feminine

These are both forces in the universe, although a person may have a physical sex, and a male or female soul. A person can still focus or meditate on a certain concept to get what they need at certain points.

By meditating on these different concepts, principles, energies, a person can understand , appreciate, connect, generate and work with them.

It means that a woman can choose to do more masculine energy.

A man can choose to do more female energy.

The energies

Male: Force, strength, resilience. It enables a person to endure and be okay with pain, be courageous, strong, forceful and if needed to fight.

Female: Nurturing, soft, comfort. It enables a person to care for others, feel cared for, comfortable and loved. Also to see other people’s point of view

General Situations

In a crisis of physical or psychological hardship, masculinity is great.

However for a soft, nurturing, comfortable life, femininity is good.

So in warfare, times of physical difficulty, when under psychological attack, when heavy and hard things need to be moved, done and built, the masculine principle is needed so can fight, stay firm, strong, persevere and not go all over the place.

In times of sadness, when a person is hurt, when repair, comfort and empathy is needed, things need to be pretty, beautiful and comfortable, then the feminine principle is needed.

Specific Situations

Women often do not like going to parties and large social gatherings by themselves. For the strength to cope with it, they often need a man, there are of course solutions to help women do this without needing a man.

If a man has trouble in going to large groups, parties etc. where they do not know people, it can be that he need to become more masculine. However if the man go so excessively extremely male at the social situation, he will not have some of the more feminine characteristics needed to be socially capable.

Dating

For a man to be attractive sexually to women, they need the masculine concept which will affect their behaviours, expressions, posture etc.

For a woman to be attractive sexually to men, they need to focus and be aware of the feminine concept which will affect their behaviors, expressions, posture etc.

Routines, habits and traditions

After done something for so long, get used to it, it becomes normal to the person doing it.

Then they do not realise it is not how it should be and how things actually should be.

Routines and habits means a person has set ways, that make a person boring. They are doing their habits and not seeing the world.

Habits can cover all aspects of a person and their behaviour, for example:
●Being late or early to things
●Confidence
●Courageous or timid
●Confidence
●Lying or truth telling
●etc.

Bad can be changed by:

●By asking yourself questions to show how a habit is not based on realty or constructive
●Being aware or awake so not having to rely on habits
● Being open to change
●Doing a different thing each time until the habit changes.

Good habits can be useful as they free up the higher mind to do more useful things, such as the automatic habits that are used when driving a car so the higher mind does not have to be bothered with this.

However need to watch them so can be improved and changed.

Pride

Pride, people with excessive pride see someone else and automatically think they are better than them. See if you can cope with the idea of being as good as them, but not better.

A person needs a certain amount of pride, so a person thinking that are worse than other people is excessive. However thinking that better than other people is excessive pride.

Can think that better at others at something if is true and needed, so you can do your thing instead of going along with the other person’s. However generally thinking are better than others at everything is a fallacy.

Often people who have failed a lot need to compensate with excessive pride. It is also a thing of selfishnes to indulge and savour pride.

Maintaining that excessive illusion leads to insecurity as is not true so will fall down like a pack of cards.

Experience

People are here to get experience from which learn from, we are in a school and learning how to get to the next level.

For example that war is bad as people loose their lives and loved ones.

The only real way to learn is experiencing things.

A person can have the information, but the only real way to learn is to experience it. Then a person also learns what direction to go in.

For example a person can read a text book on how to swim, but only once done it, do they know what it is like with the waves splashing against their face, other people jumping into the water etc.

A person starts is innocent in their first incarnation, this does not mean they are good and bad. They get karma for their good and bad actions.

An innocent person tends to go along with what they are told and so are accordingly sometimes good and sometimes bad.

They fall for the lies told by others and fall into the trap of being tempted to behave badly as they do not know better.

They have not yet done enough to have seen the consequences and experienced the results.

Experience leads to a person becoming wise. That is why a person has to do a lot, experience different things and take risks in trying things that are new, going to harder levels etc.

The best way to learn is from the experience of others, but need a high level of consciousness, awareness, observation, empathy etc to do this as then really experiencing, seeing, and feeling what other people do.

Need to take heed of the old and mature souls of the past, present and future, who warn, phrophesise and give guidance to every generation based on laws of karma and Divine principles.

When a person meditates, they actually have to experience what they become aware of. That experience becomes part of them, so they can change. To advance a person who has to experience it, not just read it in text books or think about it.

By being mindful and aware, a person can learn far more from their experiences. They can see that when they did not act morally, things did not go well and so regret it. Without being aware and mindful they would not have seen, experienced and so learned from it so much.

Young souls

As a person gets more experience they see, experience and realise that

•Everything they do has consequences

•They are not the center of the universe. They are infinitely small compared to God and nothing relative to the other 6 billion people in the universe.

Wanting Attention

A person may act silly and stupid because they want attention.

They may act in a way that results in them being bullied and they do this purely for attention. They may not realise that they are doing this.

Wanting attention is dangerous because it makes a person do things which may be bad for them.

The attention they get can be for doing bad things, in the way children may be naughty to get attention.

In fact as it is easier to do bad things than good things, in the same way it us easier to destroy a car or house than build one. So wanting attention is more likely to make them do bad things for attention if they have short term aims.

Of course in the long term doing destructive things for attention will mean they get less attention because of how things go wrong.